4 Things you can do if your BF is dragging you down


As much as you hate to admit, your mom was probably right, your boyfriend is dragging you down. What to do?  1. You need to totally assess how you feel about him. And how you think he feels about you. Act on your feelings intelligently, use your assessments as your guide.  2. Talk to your boyfriend and open up to him. Let him know how you feel about things, and see what he says. Pay particular attention on how he acts.  3. Take some time off from him. Periods of time alone are good for you. It will calm you down and give you the space you need to really think and feel things over.  4. Ask yourself when was the last time you were happy. Don't be afraid to take the next steps based on how you answered that question.